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marriage
trap
Serendipity:
Gosh this is the first website ive read so far & actually
tell us women to be careful on those jerks! haha But seriously,
most nice men are married & if they r not, they will
be happily attached! Well convenience because
some r really into sex or juz to run away from
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B4
marriage, they will promise this & that to the partner.
After marriage they twist & turn their words. What to do?
Married already!
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Evil
Bunny:
Yes, I have heard of cases where people, male and female
alike, marry because they want to get out of their house
because of a strict Dad, or they cannot stand their
siblings.. etc. but that does not mean the marriage
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Oh well, I remembered a guy I
respect, gave me this piece of advice.. "If you wanna marry
a guy or a girl, don't just analyze the person but you gotta
also analyze his/her family as well." Meaning, if they
got family problems, you will soon find out that their problems
will creep to you.. eg; Paying bail for a brother-in-law. Scary
ain't it?
"some
r really into sex" You say sex as if its a bad thing.
If you are married with a guy you love and he wants to have
sex with you ALL THE TIME.. I think its a good thing isn't it?
He finds you attractive, and so on and so forth:) i hope kids
are not reading this...
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making
the first move
Lala:
"And I have been wanting to ask you this but forgot.
As a girl, I think it would be nice if the guy asks
me out. How do guys actually perceive girls who make
the first move? Are we too daring? or Do we look desperate?
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Coz,
honestly, I think, it would feel kinda awkward and definitely
takes a girl with much courage to do that. But I would admit,
if I have the courage to do that, I would feel so much better
coz I at least tried." "And
I would like to ask, just out of curiosity, since you are the
writer of the 'Nab Yourself a Nice Guy' passage, has any nice
female reader actually asked you out coz of that?" |
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Evil
Bunny:
Actually it depends on how you approach the guy. You can't
give or ask for his number like how guys do it. You just
show some hints that you are interested, thats all. I
know of some girls who would do NOTHING at all but just
sit cozyly expecting the guy they fancy to talk to them.
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Sometimes
a small "Hi" works wonders.. remember we are talking
about nice guys here who are totally shy. If you say hi first
or at least you seem chatty or approachable, it drives his
confidence enough for him to start his work and that is to
get to know you better, hang out as a group, eventually telling
you he is serious, then off to engagement then marriage:)
And
no I have not got any emails of girls asking me out but 2
gay guys did. Kidding!
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compliments
Mariati:
Interesting website you got there..I especially like your
enjet-enjet semut music video and tips on how to nab a
nice guy - im a single nice girl myself heheheh..
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compliments
Lunatic Ladybug:
I
am hooked to this website of urs ever since I received
the link to ur Enjet2 Semut video from a friend that I
have decided to link this site to my blog.
It's
just fab! Where have u been all my life, Evil Bunny?
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Hahahahahaha....
I
just read your HOW TO NAB A NICE GUY article. Hit the head on
the paku, I tell u. hahahahahaha.... Orite
lah, more evil stuff please.... |
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compliments
Atiqah:
But
i think ur post on how to find nice guys was awesome.It
gives forlorn pathetic girls like me hope. yup, i am pathetic..
why else wld i be emailing u to tell u how great i think
ur website is? all in all, kudos!"
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Evil
Bunny:
Glad
you guys agree with what I wrote.. I didn't know I made
such an impact.. or ANY impact for that matter.
And
Atiqah... I have like a dozen strangers emailin me complimenting
the site and no, they are not pathetic.
They
just have too much time
on
their hands.
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hehehe
Just kidding:) And
one thing you guys, if you have any comment on an ARTICLE, do
write it on the subject cause that way I can find your emails
easily. Type like this: "Comment on nab a guy". Or something
like that. And
like I promised, I finally managed to get 2 photos of 2 nice
guys. But the twist is that they are both NOT local. I can't
get any of my local nice guy friends to post their pics and
the fact that I'm sick of trying. These 2 guys are Americans
and I know them personally and they are both single and they
are nice people. Except for Dan, you gotta just train him to
stop playing with rubber bands. haha
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Name:
Dan
Age: 24
Status: Single
Pros: Very nice guy. God concious but have
questions on religion. Tech guy means he can repair your PC.
Have a good set of morals. A guy you bring your Mom to.
Cons: Likes to iritate me when I'm working.
Did not admit that Im the champion of NTL (National Thrash League)
A game we used to play in the office for 3 seasons. |
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Name:
Al
Age: 27 (I think)
Status: Single
Pros: Total nice guy. Likes all sorts of music..
and I mean all sorts Cat Steven, Billy Holiday and tons I never
heard of. Into fashion. Ready to meet someone serious to settle
down.
Cons: Plays shockwave games at work and got into
the last stage of "Motherload"! I can't even do that.
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I
have asked Dan's permission but not Al but I think he's gonna
be okay with it.. Who doesn't want a bunch of emails from asian
chicks? hahah. And no, I can't give you their email addy yet cause
I need their permission to open the flood gates... so quit emailing
me:) |
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tips
to get a minah
Iskandar:
"hey there man! kewl website man! i'm 20 but i feel
kinda childish being a fan to this web! haha..but it's
ok..erm..bro, i really love the bulletin about "nice
guy" or something lyke dat, i can't recall.. can
you make more ov that?? |
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that
really kinda kewl for a person like me trying hard to get this
one minah ..
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Evil
Bunny:
I was kinda worried on where the male readers were.. I
thought guys don't read. I thought wrong. Trust me, Iskandar,
I am in the midst of writing an article on "How to
get that girl" and I was sooo engrossed writing about
it that I gotta spilt it into 2 parts. Yup,
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hard-core manual on how to get ANY minah, lian, indian girl
(i don't know the term). This technique is so lethal and effective
that I gotta warn you ladies that the whole dating scene just
got more dangerous. Bwahahah! Kidding! Relaxlah.. its just some
pointers from experience. But I'm gonna post later, after the
LA/Reno trip series which already started. Man, my work at my
day job is piling and I'm busy writing crap. If my boss knows
I'm dead meat!
And
don't feel childish about visting the site. I purposely made
the graphics kiddish just to show how "fun" this place
is but the content is kinda R(A); most of the readers are in
their 20s.
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Ruby:
I also browsed through several other stuffs that you have
and one that got me interested is the How to Nab a Nice
Guy thingie. I know that you're working on How to Nab
a nice girl or smth, so maybe I'll give my thoughts on
that too. I'm married with 2 children - |
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won't be needing the services inshaallah hahah, but I do like
to share what I know/learnt, for the benefit of those who are
still single and desperately seeking. If you think they are appropriate
to share with your readers/viewers, go ahead and publish it....!
Approaching a Nice Guy (or girl)
1. The problem with girls is that, whenever they think about approaching
someone nice enough, they think too much about it and hope too
much in return! That's when they get dissapointed and then blame
themselves for being bold and stupid to make the first move! Girls
should realise that talking to someone is not a crime, its just
a step of making friendships - and most of the time friendships
last longer (much longer than most relationships!). When they
think too much and try to create a script for that whole 'I approach
you' thing, they are most likely to be on their best behaviour,
very unnatural and every conversations after that will be of an
unreal, over-the-top-too-nice persona, too guarded - not themselves
at all! Let things come naturally, for the best kind of marriages
are between 2 good friends, not 2 highly infatuated hormones raging
youth! The
Internet ain't that bad
2. Some girls (and woman, we're talking about singles here,
so they can be well over 30) are really naive. And I mean naive.
And to top it, they are also desperate. So they will jump in
any chance to get someone. That's how people get stuck in unhappy
marriages, because they realise too late. Some could break from
it, while some are too scared to leave it because of shame,
fear and other psychological matters. In Islam, we are to chose
who we marry and to choose wisely, so don't go around blaming
fate for the unhappiness you caused yourself.
Furthermore,
why look only on your backyard, especially if all you do everyday
is probably as routine as the time the Straits Times lands at
the door every morning! Good girls just go to work and go home.
And since there are no one interesting or available at the office,
they will then be at home sending cute emails, watching Korean
Dramas, etc. In this case, the internet (next to well-meaning
matchmaking introductions) is the most viable option as it will
guard their modesty, keep them from falling madly in love on
the first-sight (infatuation that leads to a very destructive
relationship), and they have the choice of making contacts with
the ones that fit their personality and interests. You don't
have to meet that person unless its worth it. If he is from
overseas so what, as long he has the same faith and life path
or sincerely willing to, then inshaallah let Allah be the guide.
Because
that's where quiet, humble, sincere people are hiding these
days.... of course there are predators too..but its better to
be behind a computer screen that to be upfront live with a potential
predator!
I
just hope to share because though I am friendly, outspoken,
independent and have many friends, go out and do many kinds
of different activites and my work in the media exposed me to
a lot of people, I didn't find my soulmate through any of those.
People
have a different view when in comes to marriage/partnership,
looks and sizes seems to be on top of the list above all. Shy
guys or not. I ended up being best friends with many different
types of guys because I'm too much of the buddy-type. But alhamdulillah,
I persevered and wanted the best (religious, intelligent, good-father
material, stable), and believe that I deserve it because of
Allah so that I maybe a good wife and good mother (you need
to be in a stable environment to be able to do these) - and
though its a long ride to where I am now, I'm all grateful to
Allah because he hears my prayers. Prayers are powerful. Followed
with a good intention (niyaah) inshaallah.
Hope
that it brings another angle to your doodlings....
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Evil
Bunny:
I gotta take
back about what I wrote on meeting nice guys via the internet
because I agree with what you wrote Ruby. Although, I
do believe that MOST guys on the chat rooms right now
are jerks, (you can tell how the choose their nicks eg.
"Stiff69") there are some guys out there with
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I like the fact that you can totally analyse the guy before
you meet him. But the problem is that, I realised that most
girls are suckers to sweet talk.
Hmmmm..
so this is what I suggest: Before you girls meet the guys you
fancy off the net, show your conversation history to the Evil
Bunny. Hahaha No lah, just show it to your brother or male best
buddy.. Guys are not affected with sweet talks from other guys
(unless they are gay.) so that means he can analyse and QC for
you befor you make that plunge. |
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this with your friends! Cut & paste the link below
to your email.
http://www.happeepill.com/comm/nabguy/ng1/guy1.htm |
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Have
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